Commitment.
Does that mean anything anymore?

Back in my grandmother’s day, commitment meant: you stayed married until you died (or your spouse died) you worked the same job until you died, and your children lived with you until you died.
Ok, maybe a bit of an exaggeration, but you get my point.
Nowadays, commitment is something VERY different.
In fact, for many, our commitments are as temperamental as the weather: ‘Today, I’m feeling committed, I think I’ll actually do what I say I’m going to do. Tomorrow, or next week? Not sure, I’ll have to see how I feel then.’

Nowadays, commitments come with LOTS of conditions.
I’ll be committed IF I have the time.
I’ll be committed IF she does what I say.
I’ll be committed IF it’s not too uncomfortable.
I’ll be committed IF it doesn’t rain today.
I’ll be committed IF I get results quickly…
….and it never ends.
One of the first questions I ask all potential clients during their initial consultation is:
‘On a scale of 1-10’ how committed are you to achieving your fitness goals?’.
Almost always, the response is 9 or 10.
Yet, fast forward 6-12 months and the majority of these individuals are no longer pursuing their fitness goals, and if so, halfheartedly at best.
Undeniably, I could write a VERY long blog on why that is, and it’s really all summed up in one word: excuses.
However, that’s not the point of this discussion, so I won’t digress.
SO, what REALLY is commitment? What does it mean in a practical sense?
Is it something that we can ‘turn on and turn off’ like the evening news?
Is it an attitude? A belief system? A way of living? A value we’re taught or one that is ‘inherent’?
What the Hell is commitment?
As part of my contemplation of this question: I decided to ‘google’ the word ‘commitment’ to see it’s literal definition.
Here’s how Merriam-Webster defined it:
a.an agreement or pledge to do something in the future; especially : an engagement to assume a financial obligation at a future date b : something pledged c : the state or an instance of being obligated or emotionally impelled.
Boring, as I expected it would be.
SO I searched a little further, and found THIS.
If I spent the rest of my life committed to (no pun intended) creating the perfect ‘definition’ of commitment I would NOT have come even close to this.
THIS IS IT and it’s good!
Here it is (by Steve Pavlina (www.stevepavline.com)):
Put your head underwater and keep it there for a while.
You’ll soon realize that you’re 100% committed to breathing.
Notice that you don’t make excuses not breathing. Notice that you don’t worry about motivating yourself to breathe. Notice that you don’t need to justify your desire to breathe.
You just breathe.
Commitment is action.
No excuses. No debate. No lengthy analysis. No whining about how hard it is. No worrying about what others might think. No cowardly delays.
Just go.
What if something gets in the way of your commitment?
What would you do if someone tried to prevent you from breathing?

Exactly.
Need I say more?
Take a look at your life? Take a look at your ‘commitments’?
Ask yourself, are you REALLY as ‘committed’ to them, as you are to taking your next breath?
If not, it’s OK, but keep it real; call a spade a spade.
If you are, ACT like it, without conditions.
Your commitment is your WORD, and your WORD means a LOT!
COMMITTED to your fitness success,
Shondelle aka Coach